November 07, 2013

How Thanksgiving Can Supercharge Your Business Life

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It's only three weeks until Thanksgiving, one of my favorite holidays.  Most years, we huddle up with family and friends, and give thanks for the bounties in our life.  In too many cases, we are thankful for stuff: home, possessions, luxuries. In some cases, we are thankful for the people in our lives. That's when it has the greatest impact on our psyche. 

In Today We Are Rich, I wrote that gratitude is a muscle that we need to exercise often.  Otherwise, we get spiritually flabby, lose our gratefulness and nosedive in our relationship lives.  This applies to work as much as it does our personal life, too.  

So here's a simple exercise you can give your gratitude muscle over the next few weeks: Buy a box of Thank You cards (nice collection here).  Create a list of professional connections that have made a real contribution to you or your work over the last year.   Write a short note in each card, itemizing what he or she contributed, and what it has meant to you.  Send the card so that it arrives the week of Thanksgiving.  Your entire investment will run you less than $30, including postage.

Do not take any shortcuts here.  Don't send an emails or an electronic cards to save time/money.  They don't have nearly the impact as a real card that you've signed with a pen.  Don't limit giving the cards to those that report to you or work side-by-side with you.  Find people that might be surprised by your gratitude, yet deserve it for their contributions.  

This exercise is inpsired by my friend Brian Palmer, who has surprised me on many occasions with a thoughtful Thank You card.  When I've told him what a classy move it was, I could sense that he got just as much out of the exercise as I did.  And now I know why.  

The whole experience will force you to turn up your noticing knob, trying to locate the recipients for the 20 Thank You cards in your box.  The act of writing a short note to each person on your list will cause you to recollect the times when he or she was there for you, and it will fill you with positive feelings.  

Like any work related gratitude exercise, the experience will also drive something deep into your perspective: You are not alone.  There are people in your life that are helping you, supporting you and caring about your future.  This will bolster your sense of confidence about your future, knowing that you are not in it alone.  

You'll also see your mood lifted and your behavior influenced by the process.  One taxi driver I met in Denver told me that he was taught to believe that gratitude is a compound word: Gracious + Attitude.  He's right too.  When you are dialed into what people are doing for you, your ability to bounce back from life's little obstacles will be greatly enhanced. 

Check out this video from Soul Pancake, which demonstrates the emotional benefits of expressing gratitude: 


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